Most Romantic Things to Do in Santa Fe

Put a Little Romance in Your Santa Fe Lovers' Getaway

Romance is alive and well in Santa Fe. This Old World city beckons lovers with its picturesque architecture, narrow streets, mountain views and fabulous sunsets. But the truth is, when you’re with the right person, anyplace you go can give you that dizzy feeling and make those bells ring. Treat yourselves to room or suite in one of the city’s romantic hotels or inns such as the over-the-top Inn of the Five Graces. Book spa treatments and a private soak. Both Ojo Caliente Mineral Resort & Spa and Ten Thousand Waves have uber romantic options. Explore some of the romantic dining destinations such as Geronimo or the Anasazi Restaurant. Sip signature cocktails in a dimly lit lounge. Take a city tour snuggled up next to each other in a pedicab. Arrange for a private cooking class. Hire a mariachi group to serenade your sweetheart. Take a walk in the woods. Santa Fe is surrounded by National Forests and other public lands. Watch the sunset from a mountain top, a balcony or a cozy lounge. Book a private float trip on the Rio Grande with a picnic or take a ride in a hot air balloon. Get away from town a bit and stargaze. The high desert skies are crystal clear. The possibilities for romantic moments in The City Different are only limited by your imagination. Want to romance your sweetheart to the nth degree and propose. If your beloved says yes, Santa Fe will be a city you’ll never forget.


Santa Fe Botanical Garden
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Ever since Adam and Eve, gardens have been places for romance. The Santa Fe Botanical Garden on Camino Lejo (Museum Hill), is a romantic setting for lovers. The Orchard Garden, opened in July 2013, has romantic spots throughout. Bring a picnic lunch with you. Pick a romantic spot on one of the benches scattered throughout and feed each other tasty morsels. Enjoy the profusion of colorful plants that thrive in the arid high desert gardens. There's even a drought tolerant version of a romantic English Garden here. Hold hands as you walk across the old bridge that was brought to the site from Las Vegas, New Mexico. Want to pop the age-old question? The Rose Ramada is the perfect place. The garden, with perfect west-facing views can also host a glorious sunset wedding (or engagement or anniversary party).

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: The Santa Fe Botanical Garden offers lovers a beautifully landscaped escape from the city to sit and enjoy nature and each other.

Billie's expert tip: If you're in Santa Fe over the Christmas holidays, the Santa Fe Botanical Gardens offers their annual Glow, when the garden becomes a festival of lights. Walking though the beautifully lit gardens while keeping each other warm is pretty romantic.

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Jean Cocteau Cinema
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For many people of a certain age, their first romantic encounter was a furtive arm over the back of the seat at the local movie house. The intimate Jean Cocteau Cinema takes it one step further. One of the most romantic ways to watch a film in public is to rent the private, soundproof VIP room at the Cocteau. Not only will you have privacy but you can order drinks and even food delivered to your private lair during the screening. The theater, owned by George R.R. Martin of "Game of Thrones" fame is more than a movie house. They also host author talks, live music and even magic shows. If you pay the surcharge on all four seats, the space is all yours for the show.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: The VIP room at the Cocteau is a unique space where two can have a private getaway in the midst of scores of people.

Billie's expert tip: Make reservations in advance, with only four seats, the VIP booth is a coveted spot. Sometimes visiting celebrities will book the space to watch a film without being disturbed or parents of young children rent it to keep from being disturbing.

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Amelia E. White Park
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There's something very romantic about parks. They're popular trysting places in real life, books and films. Amelia E. White Park on Santa Fe's historic Eastside, is a romantic oasis minutes from downtown Santa Fe. It's probably the most intimate public park in Santa Fe. Steal away at dusk for an in-town picnic for two, or come out and stargaze after the sun goes down. The park (once parkj of El Delirio, the estate of the locally infamous White Sisters), is an urban gem. The two socialites held legendary parties in the 1920s and 30s. Martha passed away in 1937. In 1966, Amelia White deeded the land to the city to the city with the stipulation that it be used "only for the purpose of a public park ... and that flowers and vegetation will be cultivated and irrigated." Planning a small wedding? The picturesque arbor here is the perfect spot.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: Amelia E. White Park is the perfect in-town spot for a romantic picnic or a private getaway a deux.

Billie's expert tip: If you want to have a wedding at Amelia E. White Park, or any park in Santa Fe check with the city's Parks Department about reserving the space and any permits that might be required.

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Hyde Memorial State Park
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Hyde Memorial State Park (dubbed Hyde Park), just a short ride from downtown Santa Fe, is a great place to spend a romantic day or evening. One local young woman said that it was her make-out spot of choice when she was in high school. Bet she wasn't the only one. If you're outdoor types, you'll love the hiking trails leading to great views. Take a picnic lunch, find a private spot in the woods and tuck in. In winter, don a pair of snowshoes and head up a trail. At night, you can sit outside and watch the stars overhead. Reserve one of the tent camping or RV sites at the state's oldest state park and stargazing will be just outside your tent flap or door. Reservations are highly recommended as they book up. The good news: you can reserve your spot online.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: Walking in the woods is romantic. Hyde Park, just minutes from downtown Santa Fe, is perfect for lovers.

Billie's expert tip: Looking for an inexpensive and romantic wedding venue? The historic stone and wood lodge at New Hyde Park is available for special events. The reservation book for the year opens on the first Saturday in January. Want a prime date? You may have to camp out the night before.

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Terra Bar, Four Seasons Resort Rancho Encantado Santa Fe
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There's nothing more romantic than a sunset. Santa Fe's high desert ones are spectacular. The show is different every night running from reds, to oranges, to pinks and even purples. The Terra Bar at the Four Seasons Resort Rancho Encantado offers one of the best places to view the nightly show in comfort. Order two glasses of vintage wine or one of their signature cocktails and head outside to the terrace with its blazing fire pit. It's one of the best seats in the house for Mother Nature's nightly show. After the sun has retreated behind the mountains, grab a casual bite to eat in the bar or something more elaborate in Terra's dining room or head back to town.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: Sunsets spell romance. If you want to watch the nightly show with a drink in your hand, Terra Bar is the place to go.

Billie's expert tip: For something special to drink while watching the sunset, have the bar's expert mixologist whip up one of their signature cocktails, such as a martini, for you. Many of the specialty drinks are made with local and even organic ingredients. Toast each other as the sun goes down.

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Ten Thousand Waves
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Spa time can be very romantic. Couple it with private Japanese-style soaking tubs and you're onto something. Ten Thousand Waves sitting on the mountainside minutes from Santa Fe is a great option for romance. Book early! Tubs and treatments at this destination spa, popular with both locals and tourists, get booked way in advance. Want the most romantic tub? Book Waterfall, one of their "premium" soaking tubs. Their website calls it "the closest thing to bathing in a wild hot spring in the woods." After your soak, try a relaxing spa treatment.Their signature treatment, a four hands massage, is pure bliss. In summer, you're sure to see hummingbirds. End your spa day with dinner at Izanami, their izakaya-style small plate restaurant. You can even spend the night in one of the 13 on-site accommodations.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: Ten Thousand Waves with its Japanese-style soaking tubs and spa services is a great place for romance

Billie's expert tip: Soak at night. The private soaking tubs are secluded and romantic, offering the perfect spot for a bit of romance. Nothing beats soaking for your intimate moment. Add a full moon and it doesn't get any better.

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Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs Resort & Spa
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Looking for something uber-romantic and unique? Book one of the private outdoor soaking pools at Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs Resort & Spa, a little under an hour north of Santa Fe. A relaxing soak in the naturally hot mineral springs is perfect for lovers. While the warm pools whisper romance during the day, soaking a deux is at night under the stars takes it over the top. Add the flickering flames of a fire in the wood burning kiva fireplace and lie back in the warm water gazing at the brightly twinkling stars overhead. It doesn't get much sexier than this. Go between Monday and Thursday and take advantage of their High Desert Getaway for Two package which includes two massages along with a soak in one of the private pool kiva pools fire ablaze. When done soaking, share a bottle of wine in the resort's intimate bar.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: The private pools at Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs & Spa take romance to a new level.

Billie's expert tip: Want a really romantic getaway? Add an overnight stay in one of Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs Resort & Spa's Cliffside Suites which have kiva fireplaces and private outdoor soaking tubs big enough for two.

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Estrella Del Norte Vineyard

Wine and romance go hand and hand. In the 12th century, Persian poet Omar Khayyam wrote, "A loaf of bread, a jug of wine, and thou." Walk the beautiful grounds of Estrella del Norte Vineyards through grapevines, past artist studios into the sculpture garden. In warm weather sit outside while sipping glass of the Estrella del Norte's Gold Metal Pinot Noir. Bring a crusty baguette, some cheese and olives and picnic as you sample the wines. The tasting room offers a six-wine tasting. Want something different? Opt for their "Holy Mole," a Zinfandel with a touch of almond, a bit of chocolate and a spark of red chile. Most romantic moment: a Colorado couple got engaged out by the romantic fountain in the vineyard. She said "Yes," and the happy couple toasted their engagement in a full tasting room to a round of applause.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: Estrella del Norte offers wine tastings in a romantic country setting a short drive from downtown Santa Fe.

Billie's expert tip: Love food and wine and want to do something romantic that's over the top? Book a private cooking class for two in the vineyard. Pick a chef and select a menu to prepare and you're good to go.

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Canyon Road
Photo courtesy of Steve Collins

Santa Fe is a walking city. Historic Canyon Road is the perfect choice. Hold hands as you walk the narrow sidewalks past old houses that are now galleries and wonder what secrets lie beyond picturesque adobe walls. Most romantic times: at sunset when the light is beginning to change, at dusk when the shadows promise a bit of mystery or after dark. Stop for a drink at The Compound. Guests sit around the top of a 1950s "conversation pit." The bartender stationed in the pit is at eyelevel. The cozy bar at Geronimo is a bit more romantic. Grab a table for two and sip on one of their signature cocktails or a glass of bubbly or wine and talk of love. When you reach Camino del Monte Sol turn right and then right again onto Acequia and walk back downtown on one of Santa Fe's oldest streets.

Recommended for Romantic Things to Do because: The right walk can be very romantic, Canyon Road is the perfect spot for this and the price is right.

Billie's expert tip: April through October, book a pedicab ride up Canyon Road with Santa Fe Pedicabs and walk down or ride the cab round trip. Ask the driver to return via Acequia Madre. Want a bit of local history as you go? Ask your driver.

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Billie Frank is a freelance travel, food and feature writer based in Santa Fe New Mexico. Her blog, Santa Fe Travelers, is a treasure trove of information on the oldest capital city in the...  More About Billie